Showing posts with label counseling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label counseling. Show all posts

Friday, June 10, 2011

How are Christians Prone to Misunderstand the Process of Change?

In this recent interview, Tim Lane (You Can Change) and Mike Emlet (CrossTalk) discuss misunderstandings Christians are prone to have regarding the process of change, particularly given their emphasis on the heart. Here are the misunderstandings they discuss:
  • "I have to fully discern the inner-workings of my heart...before I take a step of action."
  • Inadequately calibrated expectations.
  • We can change simply as individuals, apart from community and corporate worship.
  • Fear of calling someone to obedience lest we lead someone down the road of moralism.
Listen to their explanations.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

How Does a Christian Respond Rightly to Recurrent Miscarriages?

Justin Taylor posts the following helpful resources:

See also Dan Doriani’s “Miscarriage: A Death in the Family,” where he recounts his own family’s situation and then looks at ways in which to minister to, comfort, and serve those who are grieving.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

An Inside Look at Everyday Paranoia


Ed Welch, author of Running Scared and When I Am Afraid, offers a fascinating look at how paranoia and suspicion work in his recent, humorous post, "Paranoia: A Personal Case Study." Here are some excerpts:

I am not trying to minimize the life-dominating nature of paranoia. I am trying to normalize the abnormal. Scripture indicates that we are more alike that different. As such, the unusual problems are more-like-us or less-like-us rather than different-than-us. 

Take my mini-paranoia, surround it with people I don’t know well, and a mere paper clip could trigger suspicions. It doesn’t take much for all world events to somehow connect to us, and it doesn’t take much to develop an endless suspect list....

...Evidence rarely dislodges a paranoid interpretation.
My guess is that there is a lot more life-dominating paranoia around us than we think. For every public display of paranoia there are hundreds who sit quietly in their fears. Our worlds are never quite right and it is easy to tell a credible story about who is to blame. Conspiracy theories abound, and you can be sure that many conspiracy theorists drift off into other types of paranoia. Fears don’t like to be contained; they spread. And they can be very confident in their interpretations.
...Paranoia is fear run amok that is unaffected by the evidence.
Here's his conclusion:
What is a Christian to do when the possibility of a conspiracy abounds? Rest in the undisputable evidence: Christ has come and has proclaimed no condemnation to those who throw in their lot with him. God is not out to get us. Rest is the natural state of a Christian. Then, whether other people are really after us or not, whether they are friends or enemies, we turn the other check and surprise them with grace. Certainly there is much more we could say, but this is enough to keep a paranoid person busy for a few decades.
Read the rest. 

(I'm fairly certain Ed Welch was aiming this post at me...just like I'm posting it with you specifically in mind!)

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Understanding Bipolar Disorder

This CCEF "Help and Hope Podcast" is on "Understanding Bipolar." It features David Powlison, author of Speaking Truth In Love, and Winston Smith, author of Marriage Matters. (Particularly interesting is how wrong approaches to mental illness can reduce personhood.)

You may also be interested in CCEF's recently released booklet by Ed Welch, Bipolar Disorder and his 3-part series, "Basics of Bipolar."

Thursday, March 11, 2010