How Does Fear Rob Me? Let Me Count the Ways...

I'm afraid of you. Truth be told, you're afraid of me (and others) too. And, sadly, that fear is a thief that we let rob us.

In her post, "10 Ways Fear Robs Me," Hilary Tompkins lists those ways and then offers helpful words on how the Gospel liberates us from fear. Here are her "10 Ways Fear Robs Me," the explanations of each you can read at the post:

1. Fear robs me of experiencing God's favor.
2. Fear robs me of hearing God's voice.
3. Fear robs me of honor and obeying God's leading.
4. Fear robs my trust in God.
5. Fear robs me of pursuing conflict resolution.
6. Fear robs me of receiving correction.
7. Fear robs me of being fully known in community.
8. Fear robs me of gratitude and joy.
9. Fear robs me of my voice.
10. Fear robs me of rest and peace

Here is her helpful conclusion:

An Inside Look at Everyday Paranoia

Ed Welch, author of Running Scared and When I Am Afraid, offers a fascinating look at how paranoia and suspicion work in his recent, humorous post, "Paranoia: A Personal Case Study." Here are some excerpts:

I am not trying to minimize the life-dominating nature of paranoia. I am trying to normalize the abnormal. Scripture indicates that we are more alike that different. As such, the unusual problems are more-like-us or less-like-us rather than different-than-us. 

Take my mini-paranoia, surround it with people I don’t know well, and a mere paper clip could trigger suspicions. It doesn’t take much for all world events to somehow connect to us, and it doesn’t take much to develop an endless suspect list....

...Evidence rarely dislodges a paranoid interpretation.

My guess is that there is a lot more life-dominating paranoia around us than we think. For every public display of paranoia there are hundreds who sit quietly in their fears. Our worlds are never quite right and it is easy to tell a credible story about who is to blame. Conspiracy theories abound, and you can be sure that many conspiracy theorists drift off into other types of paranoia. Fears don’t like to be contained; they spread. And they can be very confident in their interpretations.

...Paranoia is fear run amok that is unaffected by the evidence.

Here's his conclusion:

What is a Christian to do when the possibility of a conspiracy abounds? Rest in the undisputable evidence: Christ has come and has proclaimed no condemnation to those who throw in their lot with him. God is not out to get us. Rest is the natural state of a Christian. Then, whether other people are really after us or not, whether they are friends or enemies, we turn the other check and surprise them with grace. Certainly there is much more we could say, but this is enough to keep a paranoid person busy for a few decades.

Read the rest. 

(I'm fairly certain Ed Welch was aiming this post at me...just like I'm posting it with you specifically in mind!)

Three Books on Anxiety, Worry & the Fear of Man

Three great books by Ed Welch: